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Philip Banks Je Ne Sais Quoi
Joined: 20 Jun 2005 Posts: 11060 Location: Portgordon, Scotland
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 5:28 am Post subject: Apologies, the written word cannot reflect ....... |
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How often have you read that? You've only ever read it on the internet and it is usually as the result of a post on a forum, in a chat room or as the direct result of the content of an email.
Now my apology to you. Sorry, the written word can reflect attitudes, emotions, motives, nuances and clarity is possible. How is this possible? Take your time, think and think again, take one step back then re-write. Should anyone choose not to take time and, dare I say, write well then they only have themselves to blame when they are understood, really understood. I don't mean misunderstood as it is often the case that brevity result in accuracy of perception.
"Sorry, you misunderstood me."
"No need to apologise. We're sorry that we understood you perfectly and it backfired. Now you're having to back pedal like a drunken Clown on a unicycle!"
Here on the VO-BB we are extremely lucky to have a gathering of literate, good natured, witty people who are turning internet exchanges into real friendships. I don't meaningfully contribute to any other website because I don't need or want 2450 networked connections on a multi-platform basis and I would prefer 3 real friends to 350 cyber friends any day.
Just a Monday - "Pause for a thought". Hope you didn't misunderstand |
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Diane Havens Backstage Pass
Joined: 16 Jul 2008 Posts: 460 Location: NYC metro
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 5:51 am Post subject: |
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Yes, thank you, Philip. I completely understand. That is the same reason I don't host big parties at my home, preferring instead to spend more time, really talking, with fewer guests.
Well... that, and the cost.
"What's so funny 'bout peace, love and understanding?"
Elvis Costello _________________ Diane
Veni, Vidi, Voci
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bobsouer Frequent Flyer
Joined: 15 Jul 2006 Posts: 9883 Location: Pittsburgh, PA
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 5:56 am Post subject: |
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Philip,
I'm very grateful for the several real friendships that have grown over the last 2 years as a result of being a member here. I'm grateful for your many contributions to my life and work. Portgordon, Charlotte, New York City or Carbondale. No matter where we live, we need real relationships. _________________ Be well,
Bob Souer (just think of lemons)
The second nicest guy in voiceover.
+1-724-613-2749
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Deirdre Czarina Emeritus
Joined: 10 Nov 2004 Posts: 13016 Location: East Jesus, Maine
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 6:01 am Post subject: |
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Whenever I must write anything of import, whether humorous or grave, this is the maxim I keep as my guide:
Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to remove. -- Antoine de Saint-Exupery
[just a note: thank God for the internet! I could only remember the words "nothing left to take out", and so put them into Google.
I came upon this site about writing resumes:
http://www.edwardtufte.com/bboard/q-and-a-fetch-msg?msg_id=0000D1.
Life is grand.] _________________ DBCooperVO.com |
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Deirdre Czarina Emeritus
Joined: 10 Nov 2004 Posts: 13016 Location: East Jesus, Maine
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 6:05 am Post subject: |
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_________________ DBCooperVO.com |
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Diane Havens Backstage Pass
Joined: 16 Jul 2008 Posts: 460 Location: NYC metro
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 6:21 am Post subject: |
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"Nothing left to remove" -- so true.
When I was teaching English composition, I'd tell the students, say the most with the fewest words. Make everyone count. That is why I never demanded word counts from them -- you're sure to get "fill."
Skillful poetry, to me, is the highest form of communication for its economy and beauty of language. That, and music.
And, yes, the wrong words can "kill." _________________ Diane
Veni, Vidi, Voci
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Lizden A Zillion
Joined: 04 Dec 2006 Posts: 8861 Location: The dark recesses of my mind
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 6:32 am Post subject: |
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I think I've mentioned this before, but as a kid, I remember my father telling me:
"Don't ever put in writing anything that you don't want the rest of the world to know."
I think it was due to having gone through the war, but it was something he really ingrained in me. On the 'Net this is even more true.
And DB: I love that Saint-Exupery quote!
L. _________________ Liz de Nesnera O.A.V. ~ Livin' The VO Dream!
English/French Bilingual VO w/ ISDN
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bobsouer Frequent Flyer
Joined: 15 Jul 2006 Posts: 9883 Location: Pittsburgh, PA
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 6:33 am Post subject: |
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Lizden wrote: | I love that Saint-Exupery quote! |
Me too. He's among my favorite writers. _________________ Be well,
Bob Souer (just think of lemons)
The second nicest guy in voiceover.
+1-724-613-2749
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Lizden A Zillion
Joined: 04 Dec 2006 Posts: 8861 Location: The dark recesses of my mind
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 6:35 am Post subject: |
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bobsouer wrote: | I'm very grateful for the several real friendships that have grown over the last 2 years as a result of being a member here. |
SO. AM. I!
L. _________________ Liz de Nesnera O.A.V. ~ Livin' The VO Dream!
English/French Bilingual VO w/ ISDN
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Frank F Fat, Old, and Sassy
Joined: 10 Nov 2004 Posts: 4421 Location: Park City, Utah
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 8:02 am Post subject: |
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Thank you Banksey, for reminding us (me) of the value of friends. This little corner of the internet has developed a world of relationships which will last a lifetime (at least for me).
Toodles
F2 _________________ Be thankful for the bad things in life. They opened your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before. email: thevoice@usa.com |
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Mike Cain Contributor III
Joined: 11 Nov 2004 Posts: 95 Location: New York
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 8:03 am Post subject: |
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Quote: | "Don't ever put in writing anything that you don't want the rest of the world to know." |
Also always treat every mike as if it is open. This is something our politicians haven't yet learned. _________________ A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. |
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Lee Gordon A Zillion
Joined: 25 Jul 2008 Posts: 6855 Location: West Hartford, CT
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 4:53 pm Post subject: |
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Diane Havens wrote: | "Nothing left to remove" -- so true.
When I was teaching English composition, I'd tell the students, say the most with the fewest words. |
When I was writing copy at the radio station I would sometimes tell the sales people, "If I have time, I'll write you a :30. If not, I'll have to give you a :60." |
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Mandy Nelson MMD
Joined: 07 Aug 2008 Posts: 2903 Location: Wicked Mainah
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 5:39 pm Post subject: |
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Lee Gordon wrote: |
When I was writing copy at the radio station I would sometimes tell the sales people, "If I have time, I'll write you a :30. If not, I'll have to give you a :60." |
Hilarious. Your avatar should be winking with this one. _________________ 006 member of the Sisterhood of the Traveling Mic. Bonded by sound.
Manfillappsoc: The Mandy and Philip mutual appreciation Society. Who's in your network?
Have you seen my mic closet? ~ me to my future husband |
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louzucaro The Gates of Troy
Joined: 13 Jul 2006 Posts: 1915 Location: Chicago area
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Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 8:10 am Post subject: |
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Fillip dood you are so write about this place and how litter it every body is! I so glad to be hear! I no I should of gone to LingedIn but i'ts stoopid their.
RoCK oN FiLLiP!!!!!! (proud to call you my best intarnet friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) _________________ Lou Zucaro
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Diane Maggipinto Spreading Snark Worldwide
Joined: 03 Mar 2006 Posts: 6679 Location: saul lay seetee youtee
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Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 8:39 am Post subject: |
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lee, you are hilarious! _________________ sitting at #8, though not as present as I'd like to be. Hello!
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